Any seasoned parent will know that great days out are often as much about the preparation as the visit or activity itself. In these unusual times, when days out and visits to new or much-loved places have been a long time coming, this has never been more true. Whilst the British Army recommends proper preparation to avoid a certain kind of performance, we say it’s definitely worth doing some preparation in order to avoid tired, grumpy, cold or wet children - because these are the things that are really going to put a damper on your special day out!
Preparation needn’t be onerous and we’ll cover our top tips for bag packing in a separate blog (like reminding you never to leave home without a full packet of baby wipes whether your children are 2 months, 2, 12 or 22 years old). But for this blog we asked FortyMumThing to invite some real Norfolk and Suffolk families to share just some of their Top Tips for a great family day out. Read on to find out more...
FortyMumThing describes how to get the most from your great day out in Norfolk and Suffolk this Autumn
1.) Never underestimate an attraction
An attraction doesn’t have to be classed as a “family attraction” in order to be a great day out for your family. One of the most magical days out that we had last Autumn was to
Kentwell Hall
in Suffolk where we spent the day exploring their wonderful gardens through their sensational Halloweenies event. Even without the wand-making, potion-mixing and other activities, the kids were spellbound by the gardens themselves and always beg to go back. It was a truly magical day out for three generations of our family. We are so lucky to have a wealth of attractions in Norfolk and Suffolk of every size and variety. Categories can be helpful if you have a particular interest but there are so many places that everyone will enjoy. Take a look at NSTA’s website to find out more.
2.) Don’t feel like you HAVE to fit EVERYTHING in
I think this is one of the best tips that I received while researching this blog. It’s screamingly obvious now but something that as the funders and organisers of great days out, keen to get our money’s worth, we can often overlook. Louise says “If your child really loves one thing, indulge them or pick places on the [attraction] map as a family to make sure that you all get to visit the bit you want.”
Attractions, by their very nature as a collection of things to do or things to see (usually for one admission price), are very good value for money and yet if we don’t go on every ride or explore absolutely every corner we might not always feel like we have got our “money’s worth”. Rather than galloping round at a hundred miles an hour why not accept that you might not see or do everything, manage expectations and know that you can always plan a return visit later.
A wonderful ex-teacher friend of mine always says “start with the child in front of you”. If your child is really enjoying a ride, a display or an animal – why not go with that for as long as it holds their interest rather than rushing them off to the next thing? You might just be making a wonderful memory for life.
And if you all want to see and do different things on the day, then why not take a look at the attraction’s map or list of displays in advance so that you can rough out a plan and keep everyone happy with time at their favourite bit.
Pettitts Animal Adventure Park
is a great example of somewhere that has lots for everyone to enjoy, and plenty to keep both animal lovers and thrill seekers happy.
3.) Layer up
It’s a well-known fact that many of our Norfolk and Suffolk attractions have their own micro-climate – especially at this time of year! One minute your children will be running around and you’ll be doing your best to persuade them to keep even the bare minimum of clothes on, and the next minute, particularly as they get tired, they’ll be telling you that they are too cold to walk anymore and you’ll find yourself carrying them or donating your own jacket to warm them up. Thin layers of clothes, topped with a mac or waterproof is ideal for this time of year – especially if you are off to play in the woods like the wonderful ones at
Fairhaven Woodland and Water Garden.
And never underestimate the pull of water – be it pool, puddle, paddling or a fountain. My children will always, ALWAYS ask to go in Dippy’s Splash Park at
Roarr! Dinosaur Adventure
– even in the depths of winter. If you’re going to be outdoors for large parts of the day then wellies are a good idea. I always carry a towel in the car too – all year round. Of course, water safety is essential for families and hiring a boat or
taking a boat trip on the Broads
can be a great way to adventure safely on the water.
4.) Never miss an opportunity to wee!
The longest queue in the world, through no fault of an attraction, is the queue after the queue when you got to the front only to find that someone needed a wee and you had to bolt for the nearest loo! Do your research in advance and find out where the loos are and never pass up the opportunity to pee when you pass – and never give your kids a big drink before a queue! We had an extremely hairy moment with my 7 year old in the summer when he downed a slushie and joined a long queue for a high ropes adventure. Full bladders and harnesses don’t a comfortable experience make! But thankfully while he “danced and jigged” his way round the course, no one got wet in the process!
Another friend of mine takes a camping toilet with her in the boot of her car so that the children can have a wee on arrival and they don’t spend the first 10 minutes of their day racing through the attraction in desperate search of the loos. Smart thinking I say!
5.) Pick a pocket
A wait somewhere during your visit is inevitable, even if it’s just the wait for your lunch to be served. But waiting can be fun! Lots of mums I spoke to recommend bringing a pocket toy – something that can be carried easily and played with in the event of a wait! Something like a toy car is ideal but a notepad and a pen is a great idea too. Vicki says
“always have a notepad and pen with you – you can use these to draw pictures of things that they need to spot, a quick game of Pictionary or some simple mark making. Printable scavenger hunts are good too – but you could make your own for when you’re waiting in queues.”
Vicki has also written her own blog about Babywearing here
- another great way to get the most from your day out with children.
These are just a few of the fab and real ideas that families shared with FortyMumThing to help you get the most from your great day out this Autumn. We already know that there are plenty more and we’ll be sharing these with you in the not-too-distant future.
And don't forget....
We’re Good to Go for great days out on your doorstep
The majority of our Norfolk and Suffolk attractions have already been awarded the “Good to Go” kitemark and have all the measures and procedures that you would wish to see in place to ensure that you can enjoy your visit both comfortably and safely. This can include advance online booking, timed admission slots, one-way systems around the attraction, social distance markers, additional cleaning procedures, screens, plenty of hand sanitiser or hand washing points and of course a limit on group sizes to comply with the rule of six.
We always recommend that you check individual attraction websites to find out what they are doing in advance of your visit. Use our website to browse for attractions and find inspiration for your next great day out.